"Those who give of themselves rarely regret it"
About this Quote
“Give of themselves” is strategically expansive. It’s not just money, but time, attention, care, even inconvenience. That breadth matters because it shifts giving from a transactional act to an identity: the self is the resource. The softening adverb “rarely” is the quote’s rhetorical masterstroke. It avoids the brittle promise that altruism always pays off, leaving room for burnout, betrayal, and the messy realities of helping. Yet it still plants a statistical moral: most people who commit to service find that the story they can tell about their life gets better, not worse.
The subtext pushes against a culture of optimization and self-protection, where every “yes” is evaluated as lost productivity. Olasky’s intent, read in the context of late-20th-century arguments about personal responsibility and the limits of bureaucracy, is to rehabilitate sacrifice as practical wisdom, not saintly excess. The line reassures the hesitant giver while gently indicting the spectator: regret isn’t waiting at the end of generosity; it’s waiting at the end of avoidance.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Olasky, Marvin. (2026, January 15). Those who give of themselves rarely regret it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-give-of-themselves-rarely-regret-it-155535/
Chicago Style
Olasky, Marvin. "Those who give of themselves rarely regret it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-give-of-themselves-rarely-regret-it-155535/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who give of themselves rarely regret it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-give-of-themselves-rarely-regret-it-155535/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







