"Those who have experienced the most, have suffered so much that they have ceased to hate. Hate is more for those with a slightly guilty conscience, and who, by chewing on old hate in times of peace, wish to demonstrate how great they were during the war"
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The subtext is psychological and social at once. “Ceased to hate” isn’t sentimental forgiveness; it’s exhaustion, perspective, and the blunt awareness that hatred keeps you tethered to a story you can’t rewrite. Then he turns the blade: hate, he suggests, often belongs to people with “a slightly guilty conscience.” That “slightly” matters. He’s not accusing them of direct atrocities; he’s accusing them of the smaller, more common wartime sin: the nagging suspicion that you didn’t do enough, weren’t brave enough, weren’t tested enough. So you “chew on old hate” during peace to perform toughness after the fact.
Contextually, coming from a 20th-century Norwegian who moved through a Europe shaped by world wars, the comment lands as a warning about peacetime mythmaking. Veterans and survivors may seek quiet; everyone else keeps auditioning for the war they missed. Heyerdahl’s intent is to strip hate of its false nobility and expose it as a compensatory narrative - a badge pinned on long after the uniform is gone.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Heyerdahl, Thor. (2026, February 20). Those who have experienced the most, have suffered so much that they have ceased to hate. Hate is more for those with a slightly guilty conscience, and who, by chewing on old hate in times of peace, wish to demonstrate how great they were during the war. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-experienced-the-most-have-suffered-19005/
Chicago Style
Heyerdahl, Thor. "Those who have experienced the most, have suffered so much that they have ceased to hate. Hate is more for those with a slightly guilty conscience, and who, by chewing on old hate in times of peace, wish to demonstrate how great they were during the war." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-experienced-the-most-have-suffered-19005/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who have experienced the most, have suffered so much that they have ceased to hate. Hate is more for those with a slightly guilty conscience, and who, by chewing on old hate in times of peace, wish to demonstrate how great they were during the war." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-experienced-the-most-have-suffered-19005/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.










