"Those who have expressed doubts and misgivings about their ability to live this kind of life shouldn't try, because being a musician is not something you chose to be, it is something you are"
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The subtext is about survivorship. Being a working musician isn’t just stage lights; it’s instability, ego bruises, late nights, rejection, and a career that can feel like a long argument with the marketplace. Joel’s phrasing suggests that what carries you through isn’t confidence but inevitability. If you can talk yourself out of it, you probably should. Real musicians, in this worldview, can’t. They’ll play through humiliation, thin crowds, and bad pay because the alternative feels like self-betrayal.
Context matters: Joel came up in an era where “making it” often meant grinding through clubs, writing constantly, and accepting that art and livelihood would collide. His remark reads like advice and self-justification, a way to dignify the sacrifices by framing them as destiny. It’s a tough-love doctrine with a protective edge: don’t enter a life that will ask everything of you unless you’re already the kind of person who can’t not enter it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Joel, Billy. (2026, January 17). Those who have expressed doubts and misgivings about their ability to live this kind of life shouldn't try, because being a musician is not something you chose to be, it is something you are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-expressed-doubts-and-misgivings-51247/
Chicago Style
Joel, Billy. "Those who have expressed doubts and misgivings about their ability to live this kind of life shouldn't try, because being a musician is not something you chose to be, it is something you are." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-expressed-doubts-and-misgivings-51247/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who have expressed doubts and misgivings about their ability to live this kind of life shouldn't try, because being a musician is not something you chose to be, it is something you are." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-expressed-doubts-and-misgivings-51247/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

