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Life & Wisdom Quote by Leigh Hunt

"Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant"

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Grief, in Leigh Hunt's line, isn't an event you exit; it's a permanent occupancy. The sentence works by refusing the usual arc of bereavement language - closure, moving on, acceptance - and replacing it with a hauntingly domestic idea: possession. "Never, in a way" is doing the slyest kind of Victorian work. Hunt won't claim the dead child is literally present, but he insists the loss creates a continuing relationship. The hedged phrase turns sentiment into something more bracing: a psychological fact that can survive skepticism.

The genius is in the noun choice. He doesn't write "child" or "baby" but "infant", a word that carries helplessness, dependence, and unrealized future. An infant is pure beginning; losing one isn't just losing a person, it's losing a timeline. That is why the parents are "never...without" one: the mind keeps supplying the missing weight, the imagined milestones, the phantom cries. The absence behaves like a presence.

Context matters. Hunt, a Romantic-era poet and editor, lived in a culture saturated with infant mortality and public mourning, yet also governed by propriety in how pain could be displayed. This line threads that needle. It offers permission to admit what etiquette often discouraged: that such grief doesn't neatly diminish into memory. It becomes a lasting companion, intimate and involuntary, carried forward not as melodrama but as the quiet, inescapable afterlife of attachment.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hunt, Leigh. (2026, January 15). Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-lost-an-infant-are-never-in-a-way-146746/

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Hunt, Leigh. "Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-lost-an-infant-are-never-in-a-way-146746/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-lost-an-infant-are-never-in-a-way-146746/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Leigh Hunt

Leigh Hunt (October 19, 1784 - August 28, 1859) was a Poet from England.

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