"Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant"
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The genius is in the noun choice. He doesn't write "child" or "baby" but "infant", a word that carries helplessness, dependence, and unrealized future. An infant is pure beginning; losing one isn't just losing a person, it's losing a timeline. That is why the parents are "never...without" one: the mind keeps supplying the missing weight, the imagined milestones, the phantom cries. The absence behaves like a presence.
Context matters. Hunt, a Romantic-era poet and editor, lived in a culture saturated with infant mortality and public mourning, yet also governed by propriety in how pain could be displayed. This line threads that needle. It offers permission to admit what etiquette often discouraged: that such grief doesn't neatly diminish into memory. It becomes a lasting companion, intimate and involuntary, carried forward not as melodrama but as the quiet, inescapable afterlife of attachment.
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| Topic | Legacy & Remembrance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hunt, Leigh. (2026, January 15). Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-lost-an-infant-are-never-in-a-way-146746/
Chicago Style
Hunt, Leigh. "Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-lost-an-infant-are-never-in-a-way-146746/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-lost-an-infant-are-never-in-a-way-146746/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










