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Creativity Quote by Patti Smith

"Those who have suffered understand suffering and therefore extend their hand"

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Pain becomes Patti Smith's quiet credential here, not as a badge to flash but as a force that reorganizes your relationship to other people. The line moves with the plainspoken cadence of a lyric, but its mechanics are sharper than they look: suffering is cast as an education, understanding as its hard-won fluency, and compassion as the only credible use for what you've learned. Smith isn't romanticizing hurt; she's drafting a moral itinerary for it. If you've been dragged through something, the least you can do is come back with a hand ready.

The subtext pushes against a culture that treats trauma like content or currency. "Those who have suffered" could easily become the gatekeepers of pain, the ones insisting no one else can possibly get it. Smith flips that impulse. Suffering, in her framing, doesn't grant status; it imposes responsibility. The "therefore" is doing heavy lifting: empathy isn't a personality trait you either have or don't, it's a consequence - almost a duty - of having been cracked open.

Context matters because Smith's voice arrives from punk's austerity and generosity: art made from scarcity, community built in the aftermath. She's long written about loss, addiction, poverty, and the aftershocks of loving people who don't survive themselves. That history makes "extend their hand" feel less like self-help and more like an ethos of the scene: you make it out, you pull someone else up. It's not sanctimony. It's a rough, practical kind of grace.

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Smith, Patti. (n.d.). Those who have suffered understand suffering and therefore extend their hand. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-suffered-understand-suffering-and-166456/

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Smith, Patti. "Those who have suffered understand suffering and therefore extend their hand." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-suffered-understand-suffering-and-166456/.

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"Those who have suffered understand suffering and therefore extend their hand." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-have-suffered-understand-suffering-and-166456/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Patti Smith (born December 20, 1946) is a Musician from USA.

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