"Those who prepared for all the emergencies of life beforehand may equip themselves at the expense of joy"
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The subtext is psychological and social. “All the emergencies of life” is deliberately overstuffed, the kind of absolute ambition that reveals its own pathology. Wanting to be ready for everything is less prudence than a refusal to be vulnerable, a preemptive strike against embarrassment, desire, and the mess of other people. That’s Forster’s recurring quarrel with the self-protective modern subject, and with a class system that prizes composure over connection. The sentence is also a quiet warning about the moral prestige of caution: responsibility can become an alibi for not living.
Context matters because Forster’s fiction consistently stages the cost of repression and over-control, especially in Howards End and A Room with a View, where characters’ lives are narrowed by propriety, risk management, and the dread of being “improper.” The genius of the line is its asymmetry: emergencies are hypothetical; joy is immediate. Preparing for catastrophe can become a lifelong occupation, and Forster suggests that the most common emergency we fail to plan for is the moment we’re actually alive.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Forster, E. M. (2026, January 14). Those who prepared for all the emergencies of life beforehand may equip themselves at the expense of joy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-prepared-for-all-the-emergencies-of-35946/
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Forster, E. M. "Those who prepared for all the emergencies of life beforehand may equip themselves at the expense of joy." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-prepared-for-all-the-emergencies-of-35946/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who prepared for all the emergencies of life beforehand may equip themselves at the expense of joy." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-prepared-for-all-the-emergencies-of-35946/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








