"Those whose approval you seek most give you the least"
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The intent is quietly corrective. It warns that chasing validation from a single prized source usually produces the thinnest return, not because those people are uniquely cruel, but because scarcity is the point. Approval at the top of the status ladder is a limited resource; if it were freely given, it would lose its value as a signal. The subtext is even sharper: your hunger is visible. Neediness, especially in social and creative worlds, invites withholding. It makes you easier to manage, easier to keep auditioning.
Chevalier’s context matters. He moved through celebrity culture before the internet turned everyone into a publicist for their own lives, yet the dynamic is identical: platforms, patrons, and peers teach us to prize certain reactions more than others. The line doubles as backstage advice and emotional self-defense. Seek the work, the craft, the relationships that don’t require you to beg for oxygen. The people most worth having in your corner rarely make you earn basic recognition.
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Chevalier, Maurice. (2026, January 18). Those whose approval you seek most give you the least. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-whose-approval-you-seek-most-give-you-the-13561/
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Chevalier, Maurice. "Those whose approval you seek most give you the least." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-whose-approval-you-seek-most-give-you-the-13561/.
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"Those whose approval you seek most give you the least." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-whose-approval-you-seek-most-give-you-the-13561/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






