"Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared"
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The subtext is a gentle rebuke to zero-sum thinking. In most social life, giving can look like self-erasure, especially in hierarchical settings where resources and recognition are limited. Buddha sidesteps that by choosing a metaphor where the original source remains intact. It’s not altruism as martyrdom; it’s altruism as smart design. The line “the life of the candle will not be shortened” also slips in a promise aimed at fear: you won’t be punished for being open-handed. The persuasive trick is that it acknowledges the fear without dignifying it.
Context matters: as a historical religious leader speaking into cultures structured by craving, attachment, and ritualized status, Buddha’s teaching repeatedly targets the illusion that satisfaction is something you hoard. “Happiness” here isn’t a mood swing; it’s closer to a cultivated state, one that grows through practice and relationship. Shared happiness becomes both ethical instruction and psychological strategy: it trains the self away from grasping, and it binds a community without coercion. The candle is a social technology as much as a spiritual one.
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Buddha. (2026, January 17). Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thousands-of-candles-can-be-lighted-from-a-single-34442/
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Buddha. "Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thousands-of-candles-can-be-lighted-from-a-single-34442/.
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"Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thousands-of-candles-can-be-lighted-from-a-single-34442/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










