"Through the Thou a person becomes I"
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The line is doing philosophical triage. “Thou” isn’t just “you” in the casual, disposable sense; it names a mode of encounter that refuses to reduce the other person to a function, a profile, a tool, a case study. Buber’s famous split between I-Thou and I-It sits behind every word here. In I-It, the world is inventory and the self is a manager. In I-Thou, the self is summoned into coherence by being addressed and answering back.
Subtext: the isolated, sovereign individual is a myth with political and spiritual costs. If you treat people as objects, you don’t merely dehumanize them; you thin out your own humanity. The “I” that results is smaller, more defensive, easier to manipulate.
Context matters. Writing in the early 20th century, between the shocks of industrial modernity and the looming machinery of mass politics, Buber is staking a claim for relationship as an antidote to abstraction. The sentence is compact because it’s meant to be ethical, not decorative: become a person by meeting persons. The punch is that it makes selfhood a responsibility, not a possession.
Quote Details
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| Source | Unverified source: Ich und Du (I and Thou) (Martin Buber, 1923)
Evidence: Often cited as p. 39 (English translation pagination varies by edition/translator). The line is a standard English rendering of a sentence in Martin Buber’s 1923 work *Ich und Du* (published in Leipzig by Insel Verlag). Secondary scholarly references identify the original publication as: “1923, I... Other candidates (2) Martin Buber (Martin Buber) compilation95.0% ch out to him helpers and companions through the thou a person becomes i what is PeaceTalk (Leo R. Sandy, Raymond Perkins, Ashley..., 2025) compilation95.0% ... Through the Thou a person becomes I. —Martin Buber This is a philosophy centered on the ability of humans to enga... |
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