"'Through the times I've gone through the last couple of weeks - and I'm still trying to help a friend - I got attacked pretty hard through the media, and it hurt and it was devastating, but I really found out who was with me and who was there for me"
About this Quote
The pivot is telling: "and I'm still trying to help a friend". That clause is a shield and a moral claim. It reframes whatever controversy swirled around him as loyalty rather than recklessness, positioning Irvin as someone punished for doing the right thing. It also hints at the lonely math of public scandal: even good intentions get flattened into headlines once the narrative machine starts rolling.
"Hurt" and "devastating" are emotionally plain words, which is why they land. There’s no PR-poetry here, just the admission that reputation is a kind of skin. The closing line - "I really found out who was with me" - is the classic aftermath of a public crisis, but it’s also a subtle demand. He’s announcing a new ledger of allegiance, one that remembers who called, who stayed quiet, who benefitted from distance. In sports culture, where camaraderie is marketed as brotherhood, that’s the sharpest indictment: the team is conditional.
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| Topic | Fake Friends |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Irvin, Michael. (2026, January 16). 'Through the times I've gone through the last couple of weeks - and I'm still trying to help a friend - I got attacked pretty hard through the media, and it hurt and it was devastating, but I really found out who was with me and who was there for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/through-the-times-ive-gone-through-the-last-88817/
Chicago Style
Irvin, Michael. "'Through the times I've gone through the last couple of weeks - and I'm still trying to help a friend - I got attacked pretty hard through the media, and it hurt and it was devastating, but I really found out who was with me and who was there for me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/through-the-times-ive-gone-through-the-last-88817/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"'Through the times I've gone through the last couple of weeks - and I'm still trying to help a friend - I got attacked pretty hard through the media, and it hurt and it was devastating, but I really found out who was with me and who was there for me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/through-the-times-ive-gone-through-the-last-88817/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.






