"Time always seems long to the child who is waiting - for Christmas, for next summer, for becoming a grownup: long also when he surrenders his whole soul to each moment of a happy day"
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Childhood time is elastic: it drags like a punishment when desire is just out of reach, then stretches luxuriously when joy is so complete it crowds out the clock. Dag Hammarskjold, the cool-headed Swedish diplomat who served as UN Secretary-General at the height of Cold War brinkmanship, isn’t offering a sentimental postcard about kids and Christmas. He’s smuggling in a disciplined observation about attention and longing - two forces that distort our sense of duration more than any calendar ever could.
The line works because it refuses the usual adult nostalgia that treats childhood as a blur. Hammarskjold gives it texture. Waiting makes time “long” not because children are naive, but because they’re unbuffered. Adults have distractions, strategies, cynicism; children have appetite. That same “whole soul” that makes anticipation unbearable also makes a happy day feel infinite. He’s quietly arguing that intensity, not novelty, is what expands experience.
Coming from a diplomat, the subtext is sharper. Hammarskjold spent his life managing deferred outcomes: negotiations, ceasefires, resolutions that arrive late if they arrive at all. In that world, “waiting” isn’t just a childhood problem; it’s the human condition under pressure. His contrast implies a moral choice: time can be something done to you (the passive ache of postponement) or something you inhabit fully (the active surrender to a moment). The child becomes a model of total engagement - both the vulnerability and the rare power of giving yourself entirely to what’s next, or what’s now.
The line works because it refuses the usual adult nostalgia that treats childhood as a blur. Hammarskjold gives it texture. Waiting makes time “long” not because children are naive, but because they’re unbuffered. Adults have distractions, strategies, cynicism; children have appetite. That same “whole soul” that makes anticipation unbearable also makes a happy day feel infinite. He’s quietly arguing that intensity, not novelty, is what expands experience.
Coming from a diplomat, the subtext is sharper. Hammarskjold spent his life managing deferred outcomes: negotiations, ceasefires, resolutions that arrive late if they arrive at all. In that world, “waiting” isn’t just a childhood problem; it’s the human condition under pressure. His contrast implies a moral choice: time can be something done to you (the passive ache of postponement) or something you inhabit fully (the active surrender to a moment). The child becomes a model of total engagement - both the vulnerability and the rare power of giving yourself entirely to what’s next, or what’s now.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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