"Time heals all wounds, unless you pick at them"
About this Quote
The intent feels practical, almost training-table advice for the mind. In sports, replaying a mistake is useful until it becomes compulsive film study of your own failures. “Pick at them” captures that self-destructive loop: reopening pain through rumination, grievance, or the urge to keep proving you were wronged. The phrase is bodily on purpose. Wounds aren’t metaphors in football; bodies bruise, scar, and sometimes never fully bounce back. By invoking the physical act of picking, Alexander suggests emotional recovery has the same rules as rehab: rest, patience, and discipline matter, but so does resisting the itch to interfere.
Subtextually, it pushes back against the cultural lie embedded in the original saying: that time is an automatic solvent. Time is neutral. What you do inside it - the stories you repeat, the anger you feed, the identity you build around hurt - determines whether the wound closes or festers.
Context matters, too. Coming from an athlete known for high expectations and public scrutiny, it reads like lived experience with pressure, criticism, and second-guessing. It’s a compact philosophy for surviving both injury and the Internet: heal, but don’t hand your pain the knife.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Uncle John's Bathroom Reader Quintessential Collection of... (Bathroom Readers' Institute, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781607106715 · ID: RClZDwAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... Time heals all wounds , unless you pick at them . " " Lost time is never found again . " -Hank Stram -C . S. Lewis -Shaun Alexander -Benjamin Franklin " They say that time changes things , but you actually have to change them yourself ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Alexander, Shaun. (2026, March 15). Time heals all wounds, unless you pick at them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/time-heals-all-wounds-unless-you-pick-at-them-121452/
Chicago Style
Alexander, Shaun. "Time heals all wounds, unless you pick at them." FixQuotes. March 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/time-heals-all-wounds-unless-you-pick-at-them-121452/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Time heals all wounds, unless you pick at them." FixQuotes, 15 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/time-heals-all-wounds-unless-you-pick-at-them-121452/. Accessed 24 Mar. 2026.











