"Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons. Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves"
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That’s a psychologically shrewd, almost cold consolation. It spares us the moral theater of closure and replaces it with drift: memory fades, priorities reorder, the story you tell about what happened loses its heat. Pascal is also poking at pride. We cling to injuries because they certify a coherent self - I am the one who was wronged. Time threatens that narrative, and that threat is oddly liberating: if I’m not the same person, why maintain the same bitterness?
The subtext carries Pascal’s broader project: humility before human instability. In the 17th-century context of religious conflict and intense moral scrutiny, this is a reminder that our certainties - including our resentments - are built on a moving platform. There’s an implied warning, too. If time “heals” by making us different, then loyalty, love, and faith are also vulnerable. The sentence comforts and unsettles in the same breath, which is exactly why it lasts.
Quote Details
| Topic | Moving On |
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| Source | Pensées (Thoughts), Blaise Pascal — contains the line beginning "Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons" in standard English translations of Pascal's Pensées. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Pascal, Blaise. (2026, January 18). Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons. Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/time-heals-griefs-and-quarrels-for-we-change-and-5093/
Chicago Style
Pascal, Blaise. "Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons. Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/time-heals-griefs-and-quarrels-for-we-change-and-5093/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons. Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/time-heals-griefs-and-quarrels-for-we-change-and-5093/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













