"'Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and have her nonsense respected"
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The gendered pronoun matters: friendship appears as "her", a personified figure with a gentle authority. Respecting "her nonsense" becomes a small rebellion against a world that grants respect only to the coherent, the productive, the properly argued. Lamb, a critic by trade, knows how cheaply approval is bought by saying the correct thing in the correct register. He also knows what it costs to live perpetually in that register. So the sentence carries a quiet self-defense: the critic asking for mercy, for a room where he doesn’t have to be the critic.
The wit is in the paradox. Nonsense is, by definition, undeserving of respect; granting it respect is what proves the bond. The subtext is almost tenderly transactional: I will witness your unedited self without penalizing you for it - and you will do the same for me. Friendship becomes not just affection, but a shared suspension of evaluation.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lamb, Charles. (2026, February 16). 'Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and have her nonsense respected. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tis-the-privilege-of-friendship-to-talk-nonsense-139770/
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Lamb, Charles. "'Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and have her nonsense respected." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tis-the-privilege-of-friendship-to-talk-nonsense-139770/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"'Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and have her nonsense respected." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tis-the-privilege-of-friendship-to-talk-nonsense-139770/. Accessed 7 Mar. 2026.











