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Daily Inspiration Quote by John Churton Collins

"To ask advice is in nine cases out of ten to tout for flattery"

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Advice, Collins suggests, is often a disguised audition for praise. The line lands because it’s not really about counsel; it’s about vanity and the quiet choreography of social life. “To ask advice” sounds humble, even virtuous, but he yanks the mask off: in “nine cases out of ten” we’re not seeking correction, we’re shopping for confirmation. The verb choice is the tell. “Tout” carries the whiff of hustling and self-advertisement, turning the seeker into a barker outside their own ego, angling for the right respondent who will sell them the story they already want to believe.

As a late-Victorian critic, Collins wrote in a culture where manners and deference were both currency and camouflage. Advice was one of the sanctioned ways to talk about yourself without seeming to. By framing it as flattery-seeking, he exposes a social loophole: the question is merely a pretext to center the asker, and the adviser is cast as a prop in a performance of modesty. The cynicism isn’t just misanthropic; it’s diagnostic. Collins is pointing at a conversational economy in which sincerity is risky and self-knowledge even riskier, so people outsource self-approval to an “objective” voice.

The sting is that he’s indicting the listener too. Flattery requires collaboration. The adviser who delivers it gets to feel wise; the asker gets to feel validated. Collins compresses that mutual transaction into one crisp, suspicious statistic, the kind critics love: precise enough to sound empirical, ruthless enough to feel true.

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Collins, John Churton. (2026, January 15). To ask advice is in nine cases out of ten to tout for flattery. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-ask-advice-is-in-nine-cases-out-of-ten-to-tout-158678/

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Collins, John Churton. "To ask advice is in nine cases out of ten to tout for flattery." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-ask-advice-is-in-nine-cases-out-of-ten-to-tout-158678/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To ask advice is in nine cases out of ten to tout for flattery." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-ask-advice-is-in-nine-cases-out-of-ten-to-tout-158678/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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John Churton Collins

John Churton Collins (March 26, 1848 - September 25, 1908) was a Critic from England.

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