"To be a leader of men one must turn one's back on men"
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The intent is less misanthropy than insulation. To lead "men" is to make decisions that will, at least temporarily, disappoint them; the psychological trick is tolerating the backlash without folding. Ellis, writing in a period fascinated by mass behavior, heredity, and social conformity, is attuned to the way groups generate their own gravity. He’s warning that proximity breeds compliance: admiration, fear, and the desire to be liked are not just moral temptations but cognitive distortions. Turning your back is a posture of distance that lets you see the whole field, not just the faces demanding reassurance.
There’s also a chilly subtext about power. "Men" here reads as the mass, the many, the managed. Ellis implies that leadership requires an asymmetry: the leader cannot remain fully inside the group’s emotional economy and still steer it. The line works because it compresses an uncomfortable truth into a physical image: leadership as a refusal of the crowd’s gaze, a decision to be talked about rather than talked with.
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