"To be able to throw one's self away for the sake of a moment, to be able to sacrifice years for a woman's smile - that is happiness"
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The subtext is double-edged. On one level, it’s a romantic manifesto, elevating intensity over prudence, sensation over bookkeeping. On another, it’s a critique of the very impulse it celebrates. “Throw one’s self away” implies waste, even self-betrayal. The sentence stages temptation as its own argument, seducing the reader with the idea that meaning can be purchased through extremity.
Context matters: Hesse wrote out of a Europe convulsed by modernity, war, and spiritual dislocation, where inherited moral frameworks felt thin and the self became a project, not a given. In that climate, “happiness” reads less like comfort than like liberation from the disciplined, respectable life. The gendered focus - a woman as the occasion for transcendence - also betrays a period’s romantic imagination: the beloved as mirror, muse, exit ramp. The line works because it’s honest about desire’s violence: it doesn’t promise fulfillment, only the rush of choosing the moment over the measured life.
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Hesse, Hermann. (2026, January 17). To be able to throw one's self away for the sake of a moment, to be able to sacrifice years for a woman's smile - that is happiness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-able-to-throw-ones-self-away-for-the-sake-53955/
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Hesse, Hermann. "To be able to throw one's self away for the sake of a moment, to be able to sacrifice years for a woman's smile - that is happiness." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-able-to-throw-ones-self-away-for-the-sake-53955/.
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"To be able to throw one's self away for the sake of a moment, to be able to sacrifice years for a woman's smile - that is happiness." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-able-to-throw-ones-self-away-for-the-sake-53955/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








