"To be completely woman you need a master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long"
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The rhetoric is clean and coercive. “Completely woman” frames womanhood as a finished product, certified only through male ownership. “Compass” makes the man not just a partner but a navigation system; without him, she’s cast as directionless, hysterical, unlovable. The most chilling move is how discontent becomes a moral failure and a romantic liability. The threat isn’t explicit violence; it’s something more socially efficient: you’ll be replaced.
Context matters. Dietrich rose between the world wars, when modernity was loosening old roles even as backlash tightened them. The quote channels that tension: the fear of female autonomy dressed up as common sense. It also reads as show-business realpolitik, a cynical understanding that women in the spotlight were rewarded for deference and punished for appetite, ambition, or boredom.
Subtext: patriarchy doesn’t need to convince women they’re inferior if it can convince them their loneliness will be. Dietrich, ever the icon of controlled transgression, turns that mechanism into a line you can’t ignore - because it’s both an endorsement and an exposure of the trap.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dietrich, Marlene. (2026, January 15). To be completely woman you need a master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-completely-woman-you-need-a-master-and-in-164234/
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Dietrich, Marlene. "To be completely woman you need a master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-completely-woman-you-need-a-master-and-in-164234/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To be completely woman you need a master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-completely-woman-you-need-a-master-and-in-164234/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.








