"To be exempt from the Passions with which others are tormented, is the only pleasing Solitude"
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The subtext is pointedly social. Steele wrote in a London of coffeehouses, party papers, and reputations made and ruined in public. In that world, “passions” aren’t private weather; they’re contagious, performed, and weaponized. Solitude becomes “pleasing” only when it’s not just physical separation from the crowd but separation from the crowd’s emotional economy: the need to be admired, to win, to retaliate, to keep up. It’s a diagnosis of status culture before we had that phrase.
There’s also a sly discipline hidden inside the comfort. Steele isn’t saying the sensitive should flee society; he’s arguing that the best company is possible only after self-government. The cleanest irony is that his ideal solitude is less about being alone than about being unprovokable. That’s not withdrawal. It’s power.
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"To be exempt from the Passions with which others are tormented, is the only pleasing Solitude." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-exempt-from-the-passions-with-which-others-163772/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










