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Daily Inspiration Quote by Herman Melville

"To be hated cordially, is only a left-handed compliment"

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Being hated with enthusiasm is one of those social facts Melville treats like weather: unavoidable, revealing, and oddly instructive. “To be hated cordially” sounds like a curse until the pivot lands - “only a left-handed compliment.” The line works because it steals the energy of animosity and converts it into backhanded proof of relevance. Cordial hatred isn’t indifference; it’s attention with its teeth out.

The phrase “cordially” is the needle. It borrows the language of politeness and hospitality, then poisons it. Melville is pointing at a familiar hypocrisy: people can dislike you and still perform warmth, or hate you so intensely it becomes a kind of intimacy. Either way, hatred becomes social currency, something delivered with ceremony. That’s why the “compliment” isn’t clean. It’s “left-handed,” the sort you accept while checking for the knife.

Melville writes in a 19th-century world anxious about reputation, moral authority, and public standing - a culture where approval mattered, but so did the spectacle of condemnation. In that context, being “cordially” hated suggests you’ve crossed into visibility: you’ve threatened someone’s comfort, challenged a hierarchy, or simply made yourself impossible to ignore. It’s a novelist’s version of a grim badge: the crowd doesn’t boo nobodies.

The subtext is less motivational poster than wary diagnosis. Hatred can be flattering, yes, but it’s also evidence that social life rewards antagonism with passion. Melville isn’t advising you to chase enemies; he’s reminding you that scandal and significance often arrive holding hands.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Melville, Herman. (n.d.). To be hated cordially, is only a left-handed compliment. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-hated-cordially-is-only-a-left-handed-21459/

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Melville, Herman. "To be hated cordially, is only a left-handed compliment." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-hated-cordially-is-only-a-left-handed-21459/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To be hated cordially, is only a left-handed compliment." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-hated-cordially-is-only-a-left-handed-21459/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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Herman Melville

Herman Melville (August 1, 1819 - September 28, 1891) was a Novelist from USA.

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