"To be loved is important, as is having a sense of accomplishment, but to love is equally important in life, especially when it is combined with taking action to do something for someone else to make their life better"
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The intent is corrective. He starts with what most of us are trained to chase - being loved, checking boxes, stacking achievements - then deliberately rebalances the scales. The pivot isn’t romantic; it’s moral. “To love” becomes “taking action,” and action is defined not as grand gestures but as making “their life better.” That phrasing matters: it shifts love from self-validation to responsibility. You can’t just bask in affection or in your own résumé; you’re asked to spend yourself.
Subtext: celebrity is a weak substitute for intimacy, and accomplishment is a weak substitute for meaning. For an actor whose career depended on being seen, this is a quiet repudiation of mere visibility. Kiel’s era of movie stardom also prized larger-than-life personas, yet he argues that the real measure of a life is not how it looks from the outside but what it does for someone else up close.
In cultural terms, it anticipates today’s fatigue with “self-care” as a complete philosophy. Kiel’s version of fulfillment isn’t performative kindness. It’s love with receipts.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kiel, Richard. (2026, February 16). To be loved is important, as is having a sense of accomplishment, but to love is equally important in life, especially when it is combined with taking action to do something for someone else to make their life better. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-loved-is-important-as-is-having-a-sense-of-123933/
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Kiel, Richard. "To be loved is important, as is having a sense of accomplishment, but to love is equally important in life, especially when it is combined with taking action to do something for someone else to make their life better." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-loved-is-important-as-is-having-a-sense-of-123933/.
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"To be loved is important, as is having a sense of accomplishment, but to love is equally important in life, especially when it is combined with taking action to do something for someone else to make their life better." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-loved-is-important-as-is-having-a-sense-of-123933/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











