"To be really happy, we must throw our hearts over the bar and hope that our bodies will follow"
About this Quote
The subtext is about courage disguised as optimism. "Hope that our bodies will follow" admits the fear: the body is inertia, doubt, the part that wants to stay safe on the track. But hope is also strategy. Coaches know you can't will someone into performance by lecturing them about technique alone; you get buy-in, you get belief, you get the heart moving, and suddenly the legs look smarter.
Context matters: Taylor came up in a British football culture that prizes grit, playing through it, emotional restraint, and suspiciousness toward anything that sounds like self-help. So this line smuggles vulnerability into a familiar language of effort. It's not "be positive". It's "take the leap". Happiness becomes less a reward for having your life sorted and more the byproduct of choosing, publicly and bodily, to go for it before you're ready.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Taylor, Graham. (2026, January 16). To be really happy, we must throw our hearts over the bar and hope that our bodies will follow. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-really-happy-we-must-throw-our-hearts-over-125137/
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Taylor, Graham. "To be really happy, we must throw our hearts over the bar and hope that our bodies will follow." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-really-happy-we-must-throw-our-hearts-over-125137/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To be really happy, we must throw our hearts over the bar and hope that our bodies will follow." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-really-happy-we-must-throw-our-hearts-over-125137/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








