"To be shapely when you're in the seventh grade is not exactly what everyone's looking for, or they weren't then, as someone was telling me the other day. Now, that's like a really great thing to do, to be, but then it wasn't"
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Her phrasing exposes a culture that constantly re-ranks girls’ bodies as trends. "Now, that’s like a really great thing to do, to be" sounds like she’s mocking the way desirability gets marketed as an achievement, as if puberty were a smart personal brand choice. Then the knife: "but then it wasn’t". The subtext isn’t just that standards change; it’s that the same body can be punished in one era and rewarded in another, with zero regard for the person living inside it.
There’s also a quiet indictment of adult nostalgia and revisionism. Someone "telling me the other day" suggests the past is being re-labeled from a safe distance, as if discomfort was merely unfashionable rather than genuinely isolating or sexualizing. Sagal captures how adolescence turns the body into public property before the self has fully arrived.
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| Topic | Nostalgia |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sagal, Katey. (2026, February 16). To be shapely when you're in the seventh grade is not exactly what everyone's looking for, or they weren't then, as someone was telling me the other day. Now, that's like a really great thing to do, to be, but then it wasn't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-shapely-when-youre-in-the-seventh-grade-is-167889/
Chicago Style
Sagal, Katey. "To be shapely when you're in the seventh grade is not exactly what everyone's looking for, or they weren't then, as someone was telling me the other day. Now, that's like a really great thing to do, to be, but then it wasn't." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-shapely-when-youre-in-the-seventh-grade-is-167889/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To be shapely when you're in the seventh grade is not exactly what everyone's looking for, or they weren't then, as someone was telling me the other day. Now, that's like a really great thing to do, to be, but then it wasn't." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-shapely-when-youre-in-the-seventh-grade-is-167889/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.








