"To be what you want to be, you must give up being what you are"
About this Quote
Stevens was never just writing about self-help ambition. His work and public arc orbit the tension between worldly success and inward clarity. Read in that light, the line sounds less like hustle culture and more like renunciation: growth as subtraction, not accumulation. "What you are" isn't necessarily your essence; it's the version of you shaped by routines, appetites, other people's expectations, the roles you learned to perform because they were rewarded. Wanting becomes a kind of spiritual pressure that exposes how much of the self is scaffolding.
The subtext is bracingly anti-comfort. It suggests that transformation isn't primarily about willpower; it's about grief. You don't merely upgrade your life - you mourn the old one, including the familiar defenses that kept you intact. Coming from a musician whose career threaded fame, introspection, and a widely discussed turn toward faith and a different public identity, the line reads as a lived thesis: reinvention costs, and the bill is paid in the currency of the self you thought you couldn't survive without.
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| Topic | Reinvention |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stevens, Cat. (2026, January 18). To be what you want to be, you must give up being what you are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-what-you-want-to-be-you-must-give-up-being-12702/
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Stevens, Cat. "To be what you want to be, you must give up being what you are." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-what-you-want-to-be-you-must-give-up-being-12702/.
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"To be what you want to be, you must give up being what you are." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-what-you-want-to-be-you-must-give-up-being-12702/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












