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Daily Inspiration Quote by Bertrand Russell

"To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness"

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Russell’s line lands like a polite heresy: happiness isn’t the reward for getting what you want, it’s the product of learning to live with not getting all of it. The phrasing is deliberately surgical. “Some of the things you want” doesn’t demand monkish renunciation; it narrows the claim to a manageable, modern ache: the ordinary mismatch between desire and reality. Then he goes for the provocation: deprivation isn’t a tragic obstacle to happiness, it’s “indispensable,” a required ingredient.

The subtext is anti-consumerist before that critique had a name. Russell is poking at the fantasy that satisfaction is cumulative, that a life can be made whole by acquisition, achievement, or romance if you just keep stacking wins. He’s also resisting a very British, very 20th-century temptation: to equate unhappiness with personal failure. Wanting is normal; frustration is not a bug but a boundary condition that keeps pleasure legible. If you get everything, wanting doesn’t end; it mutates into restlessness, boredom, or the anxious maintenance of your “perfect” setup.

Context matters: Russell wrote in a world of accelerating modernity, mass culture, and political catastrophe. Against that backdrop, he offers a pragmatic, almost therapeutic ethics. Happiness, for him, isn’t ecstasy; it’s a stable relation to one’s appetites. The line works because it flips the logic of aspiration: limits aren’t a humiliation, they’re the architecture that makes contentment possible.

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TopicHappiness
Source
Verified source: The Conquest of Happiness (Bertrand Russell, 1930)
Text match: 99.00%   Provider: Cross-Reference
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He forgets that to be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness. (Chapter II: Byronic Unhappiness (starts p. 27; quote appears on p. 31 in the 1930 Allen & Unwin printing)). Primary source: Bertrand Russell’s own book. The Project Gutenberg transcription reproduces the 1930 London first edition (George Allen & Unwin) and shows the chapter and page structure; Chapter II is listed as beginning on p. 27, and the quote occurs in that chapter (displayed with an in-text page marker [31] at the line break in the HTML). The standalone version of the quote (“To be without some of the things you want…”) is a shortened excerpt from this sentence.
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"To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness." FixQuotes, 11 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-be-without-some-of-the-things-you-want-is-an-33135/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Bertrand Russell (May 18, 1872 - February 2, 1970) was a Philosopher from United Kingdom.

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