"To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness"
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The subtext is anti-consumerist before that critique had a name. Russell is poking at the fantasy that satisfaction is cumulative, that a life can be made whole by acquisition, achievement, or romance if you just keep stacking wins. He’s also resisting a very British, very 20th-century temptation: to equate unhappiness with personal failure. Wanting is normal; frustration is not a bug but a boundary condition that keeps pleasure legible. If you get everything, wanting doesn’t end; it mutates into restlessness, boredom, or the anxious maintenance of your “perfect” setup.
Context matters: Russell wrote in a world of accelerating modernity, mass culture, and political catastrophe. Against that backdrop, he offers a pragmatic, almost therapeutic ethics. Happiness, for him, isn’t ecstasy; it’s a stable relation to one’s appetites. The line works because it flips the logic of aspiration: limits aren’t a humiliation, they’re the architecture that makes contentment possible.
Quote Details
| Topic | Happiness |
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| Source | Verified source: The Conquest of Happiness (Bertrand Russell, 1930)
Evidence: He forgets that to be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness. (Chapter II: Byronic Unhappiness (starts p. 27; quote appears on p. 31 in the 1930 Allen & Unwin printing)). Primary source: Bertrand Russell’s own book. The Project Gutenberg transcription reproduces the 1930 London first edition (George Allen & Unwin) and shows the chapter and page structure; Chapter II is listed as beginning on p. 27, and the quote occurs in that chapter (displayed with an in-text page marker [31] at the line break in the HTML). The standalone version of the quote (“To be without some of the things you want…”) is a shortened excerpt from this sentence. Other candidates (1) The Secret of Shelter Island (Alexander Green, 2009) compilation95.0% ... Bertrand Russell wrote , " The man who acquires easily things for which he feels only a moderate desire con ... t... |
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