"To change, to convert? Why bother?"
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Lionel Blue wrote and spoke as a rabbi who was also an outsider in multiple senses (not least as a gay man in a tradition negotiating modernity). That background matters. The line reads like a defense against coercive narratives: conversion as conquest, change as conformity, personal reinvention as a demand to become palatable. By pairing "change" with "convert", he implies they can be versions of the same pressure - a polite word for submission.
The genius is the compact rhythm: two infinitives, a question mark, then the blunt dismissal. It mimics the internal monologue of someone weary of being told their current self is a problem to be solved. There’s irony, too, because clergy are professionally invested in conversion. Blue’s refusal turns the sermon back on the sermonizer: if religion is only about fixing people, it’s just another ideology with nicer music.
Underneath sits a more radical spiritual claim: the divine may not be waiting on the other side of your self-improvement project. Maybe grace starts with staying put long enough to tell the truth.
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Blue, Lionel. (2026, January 18). To change, to convert? Why bother? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-change-to-convert-why-bother-18080/
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Blue, Lionel. "To change, to convert? Why bother?" FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-change-to-convert-why-bother-18080/.
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"To change, to convert? Why bother?" FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-change-to-convert-why-bother-18080/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








