"To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful"
About this Quote
As a model and public figure, Myerson’s authority here isn’t academic; it’s social and experiential. She’s speaking from a world where attraction can be instantaneous, public, and rewarded - a flashbulb event. Falling in love is framed as frictionless: chemistry, glamour, momentum. Falling out of love, by contrast, isn’t granted the same narrative support. There’s no cultural script for clean exits, only for loyalty, drama, or collapse. That’s the subtext: we romanticize beginnings and moralize endings, so disenchantment feels like failure rather than change.
The quote’s bite comes from its refusal to sentimentalize. It doesn’t pretend heartbreak is poetic; it’s “awful” in the plainest sense - awkward conversations, shared routines turning sour, the guilt of being the person who leaves. By making the language itself pivot, Myerson mirrors the experience: one small internal shift, and everything that once felt simple becomes unbearable.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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| Source | Later attribution: At the Point of Almost (Tiffany Donald-Lockett, 2021) modern compilationISBN: 9781098035617 · ID: _JkuEAAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... Bess Myerson said, “To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful.” Even though our love language was blurry, it was visible because of the deep affection we had for each other. Unfortunately, Joseph and I ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Myerson, Bess. (2026, March 15). To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-fall-in-love-is-awfully-simple-but-to-fall-out-121268/
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Myerson, Bess. "To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful." FixQuotes. March 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-fall-in-love-is-awfully-simple-but-to-fall-out-121268/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful." FixQuotes, 15 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-fall-in-love-is-awfully-simple-but-to-fall-out-121268/. Accessed 22 Mar. 2026.










