"To find in ourselves what makes life worth living is risky business, for it means that once we know we must seek it. It also means that without it life will be valueless"
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The quote also smuggles in a tough ethical standard: a life not oriented around that discovered core becomes "valueless". Read literally, it's severe, almost punitive, but the severity is the point. Sinetar isn't grading other people's lives; she's using absolutist language to expose how easily we settle for substitutes - status, busyness, approval - that keep us from confronting what we actually want. "Valueless" functions as a provocation, a rhetorical shove meant to break the trance of acceptable unhappiness.
Context matters: Sinetar emerged from a late-20th-century ecosystem of human potential thinking, career reinvention, and therapeutic culture, where "finding your purpose" became both a promise and a marketplace. She resists the comforting version of that idea. Purpose isn't a scented candle; it's a demand. The subtext is a critique of passivity: people don't avoid meaning because they can't access it, but because meaning comes with consequences - changes to relationships, work, identity, and the stories we tell to stay put.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sinetar, Marsha. (2026, January 17). To find in ourselves what makes life worth living is risky business, for it means that once we know we must seek it. It also means that without it life will be valueless. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-find-in-ourselves-what-makes-life-worth-living-81665/
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Sinetar, Marsha. "To find in ourselves what makes life worth living is risky business, for it means that once we know we must seek it. It also means that without it life will be valueless." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-find-in-ourselves-what-makes-life-worth-living-81665/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To find in ourselves what makes life worth living is risky business, for it means that once we know we must seek it. It also means that without it life will be valueless." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-find-in-ourselves-what-makes-life-worth-living-81665/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









