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Love Quote by Robert Brault

"To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness"

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Happiness, for Brault, isn’t the fireworks of being admired; it’s the quiet luxury of being accepted before you’ve earned it. The line turns on a deliberate asymmetry: “love you for no reason” is grace, unbargained-for and unprovable, a kind of emotional amnesty. Then he flips it. Your response isn’t to demand proof or to keep the relationship “fair,” but to “shower that person with reasons” anyway. The power comes from that chosen excess: you don’t repay unconditional love with a ledger, you answer it with attention, effort, and specificity.

The subtext is a critique of how modern intimacy often gets negotiated like a contract. We’re trained to justify ourselves - achievements, attractiveness, usefulness - and to shop for partners the way we shop for phones: features, upgrades, return policies. “No reason” refuses that marketplace logic. It suggests the deepest security arrives when the other person’s care isn’t dependent on your performance, mood, or latest failure.

But Brault doesn’t romanticize passivity. The second clause keeps unconditional love from becoming entitlement. If someone loves you without a case file, you don’t coast; you become an author of reasons: small acts, gratitude made concrete, love that notices. The “ultimate” here isn’t hyperbole so much as a value judgment: the best life isn’t merely being loved, it’s being freed from self-justification and then choosing, actively, to justify the other person’s faith in you.

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TopicSoulmate
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Later attribution: Inspirational Quotes For All Occasions (Bangambiki Habyarimana, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9781304343147 · ID: nXm6BQAAQBAJ
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... To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault Without love, what are we worth? Eighty-nine cents! Eighty-nine cents worth of chemicals walking ...
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Brault, Robert. (2026, March 6). To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-find-someone-who-will-love-you-for-no-reason-173337/

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Brault, Robert. "To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness." FixQuotes. March 6, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-find-someone-who-will-love-you-for-no-reason-173337/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness." FixQuotes, 6 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-find-someone-who-will-love-you-for-no-reason-173337/. Accessed 24 Mar. 2026.

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Robert Brault (born 1938) is a Philosopher from USA.

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