"To God be humble, to thy friend be kind, and with thy neighbors gladly lend and borrow; his chance tonight, it maybe thine tomorrow"
About this Quote
The second and third clauses shift the poem from heaven to the street. “Thy friend” suggests chosen loyalty, the network that might actually keep you fed or employed. “Neighbors” expands the circle to the people you cannot curate, the ones who watch, judge, and—crucially—share. “Gladly lend and borrow” is the most revealing phrase: Dunbar isn’t preaching charity that flows one direction. He’s describing a community economy where survival depends on credit, favor, and the absence of pride. Borrowing, admitted aloud, becomes an ethical act because it keeps the system honest.
Then comes the sting: “His chance tonight, it maybe thine tomorrow.” Dunbar doesn’t romanticize misfortune; he weaponizes it as empathy. The subtext is a warning to the comfortable and a reassurance to the precarious: status is weather. Today’s debtor can be tomorrow’s benefactor, and the only sane response to that volatility is humility, kindness, and a willingness to exchange help without keeping score.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Dunbar, William. (2026, February 18). To God be humble, to thy friend be kind, and with thy neighbors gladly lend and borrow; his chance tonight, it maybe thine tomorrow. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-god-be-humble-to-thy-friend-be-kind-and-with-95906/
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Dunbar, William. "To God be humble, to thy friend be kind, and with thy neighbors gladly lend and borrow; his chance tonight, it maybe thine tomorrow." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-god-be-humble-to-thy-friend-be-kind-and-with-95906/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To God be humble, to thy friend be kind, and with thy neighbors gladly lend and borrow; his chance tonight, it maybe thine tomorrow." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-god-be-humble-to-thy-friend-be-kind-and-with-95906/. Accessed 4 Mar. 2026.










