"To keep your secret is wisdom; but to expect others to keep it is folly"
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Johnson’s sentence is a tiny guillotine for a common self-deception: the fantasy that secrecy can be outsourced. The line works because it flatters your self-control in the first clause, then withdraws that comfort in the second. “To keep your secret is wisdom” is almost parental in its approval - restraint as character. But the pivot, “to expect others to keep it is folly,” exposes the real target: not gossipers, but the person who confuses intimacy with insurance.
The subtext is distinctly Johnsonian: skeptical about human nature, impatient with sentimental theories of virtue. He’s not claiming people are uniquely vicious; he’s implying they’re predictably human. Secrets are socially contagious. Once a fact becomes a bond between two people, it becomes currency - useful for signaling closeness, leveraging trust, or relieving the pressure of carrying it. Expecting someone else to hold it forever assumes a level of constancy and self-denial that Johnson, a moralist of the 18th century, rarely grants the species.
Context matters: Johnson wrote in a world of salons, coffeehouses, patronage networks, and reputations that could be made or mauled by talk. Privacy wasn’t protected by institutions; it was negotiated by manners. His warning is practical ethics disguised as aphorism: if disclosure could harm you, don’t narrate it into existence.
There’s also a quiet asymmetry baked in. Keeping your secret is within your agency; keeping it for you requires another person’s ongoing discipline, incentives, and circumstances to align with your needs. Johnson calls that expectation “folly” because it mistakes hope for a plan.
The subtext is distinctly Johnsonian: skeptical about human nature, impatient with sentimental theories of virtue. He’s not claiming people are uniquely vicious; he’s implying they’re predictably human. Secrets are socially contagious. Once a fact becomes a bond between two people, it becomes currency - useful for signaling closeness, leveraging trust, or relieving the pressure of carrying it. Expecting someone else to hold it forever assumes a level of constancy and self-denial that Johnson, a moralist of the 18th century, rarely grants the species.
Context matters: Johnson wrote in a world of salons, coffeehouses, patronage networks, and reputations that could be made or mauled by talk. Privacy wasn’t protected by institutions; it was negotiated by manners. His warning is practical ethics disguised as aphorism: if disclosure could harm you, don’t narrate it into existence.
There’s also a quiet asymmetry baked in. Keeping your secret is within your agency; keeping it for you requires another person’s ongoing discipline, incentives, and circumstances to align with your needs. Johnson calls that expectation “folly” because it mistakes hope for a plan.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
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