"To know that one has never really tried - that is the only death"
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What makes the line work is its ruthless reframing of failure. Most people fear trying and falling short; Dressler flips the fear onto the greater humiliation - never stepping into the risk at all. “Only death” is pointedly absolute, a melodramatic phrase that feels earned coming from an actress. She’s borrowing the language of tragedy to shame the smaller, quieter tragedy of self-protection. The dash is doing work, too: a beat of silence, like a performer pausing for the audience to catch up, then delivering the verdict.
In her era, “trying” wasn’t a cute self-help slogan; it was survival, especially for a woman in entertainment who aged in public. Dressler’s career arc gives the quote its subtext: reinvention is painful, rejection is normal, and the real catastrophe is letting fear calcify into identity. The line isn’t motivational fluff. It’s a hard-edged definition of dignity: you don’t control outcomes, but you do control whether you showed up with your full nerve.
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| Topic | Never Give Up |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dressler, Marie. (n.d.). To know that one has never really tried - that is the only death. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-know-that-one-has-never-really-tried-that-is-164212/
Chicago Style
Dressler, Marie. "To know that one has never really tried - that is the only death." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-know-that-one-has-never-really-tried-that-is-164212/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To know that one has never really tried - that is the only death." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-know-that-one-has-never-really-tried-that-is-164212/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.









