"To learn to get along without, to realize that what the world is going to demand of us may be a good deal more important than what we are entitled to demand of it - this is a hard lesson"
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The subtext is a rebuke to the American habit of treating history like a customer-service desk: we paid in patriotism, so where are the benefits? Catton, a Civil War historian shaped by the Great Depression and World War II, understood how quickly societies discover the difference between rights on paper and survival in practice. His phrasing keeps the ego in check: "entitled" carries a sting, suggesting not just legitimate rights but the inflation of self-importance. Against that, "demand" feels impersonal and non-negotiable, like weather or war.
What makes the quote work is its blunt moral math. It does not deny what people are owed; it demotes it. The "hard lesson" lands as both warning and consolation: the difficulty is the point. Maturity, personal or national, arrives when you stop asking history to accommodate you and start asking what it requires of you.
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| Topic | Humility |
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Catton, Bruce. (2026, January 16). To learn to get along without, to realize that what the world is going to demand of us may be a good deal more important than what we are entitled to demand of it - this is a hard lesson. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-learn-to-get-along-without-to-realize-that-132022/
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Catton, Bruce. "To learn to get along without, to realize that what the world is going to demand of us may be a good deal more important than what we are entitled to demand of it - this is a hard lesson." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-learn-to-get-along-without-to-realize-that-132022/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To learn to get along without, to realize that what the world is going to demand of us may be a good deal more important than what we are entitled to demand of it - this is a hard lesson." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-learn-to-get-along-without-to-realize-that-132022/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







