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Daily Inspiration Quote by Elizabeth Cady Stanton

"To live for a principle, for the triumph of some reform by which all mankind are to be lifted up to be wedded to an idea may be, after all, the holiest and happiest of marriages"

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Stanton recasts marriage - the era’s most policed female destiny - as a voluntary, ideological union with teeth. The line is shaped like a concession (“may be, after all”) but it’s a provocation: if society insists women are fulfilled only through wedlock, she’ll accept the frame and flip its contents. The “holiest and happiest” marriage, in her telling, isn’t to a husband but to a principle, a reform, an idea with public consequences.

The subtext is strategic and personal. Stanton is speaking into a culture that treated political ambition in women as unnatural, even obscene. By borrowing the language of sanctity, she raids the moral authority of religion and domesticity, then redirects it toward activism. “All mankind” is doing double duty: it sounds expansive and righteous, but it also exposes the rhetorical compromise of her time, when universal claims were often made in male terms even by women fighting for equality. The phrase “lifted up” leans into the abolitionist and evangelical reform idioms circulating through 19th-century America, where progress was framed as moral elevation.

Context matters: Stanton spent her life battling laws and customs that made marriage a legal trap - property rights, custody, bodily autonomy. Calling devotion to reform a “marriage” suggests an alternative covenant: chosen rather than assigned, productive rather than restrictive. She’s not dismissing intimacy; she’s insisting that women’s deepest loyalties can be civic, that a life organized around justice can be as legitimate - and as emotionally sustaining - as the domestic ideal used to contain them.

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Elizabeth Cady Stanton (November 12, 1815 - October 26, 1902) was a Activist from USA.

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