"To live we must conquer incessantly, we must have the courage to be happy"
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The line turns sharply on its second clause: “we must have the courage to be happy.” Courage is usually reserved for suffering, sacrifice, stoicism. Amiel flips the script and exposes a subtler fear: the fear of joy. Happiness can feel like a provocation to fate, an invitation to disappointment, or a betrayal of seriousness. For an intellectually rigorous temperament, cheerfulness can seem naive; for a morally vigilant culture, it can seem suspiciously self-indulgent. By framing happiness as an act of bravery, Amiel implies that many of us choose gloom not because it’s truer, but because it’s safer, more defensible, more in keeping with our self-image.
The sentence works because it refuses sentimentality. It grants happiness its cost. Not the cost of earning it through suffering, but the cost of continually choosing it in full awareness of what can be lost.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Amiel, Henri Frederic. (2026, January 15). To live we must conquer incessantly, we must have the courage to be happy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-live-we-must-conquer-incessantly-we-must-have-72884/
Chicago Style
Amiel, Henri Frederic. "To live we must conquer incessantly, we must have the courage to be happy." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-live-we-must-conquer-incessantly-we-must-have-72884/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To live we must conquer incessantly, we must have the courage to be happy." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-live-we-must-conquer-incessantly-we-must-have-72884/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









