"To look back is to relax one's vigil"
About this Quote
The phrasing is slyly martial. A vigil is something you keep, not something you have. It requires effort, discipline, and a refusal to be lulled. That diction fits a performer who survived the studio system, tabloid cruelty, and an industry that treated actresses as perishable goods. For women especially, the past can become a trap disguised as a compliment: remember when you were... The quote refuses that bargain. It suggests that looking back is how the world convinces you to stand still.
Subtextually, Davis is also talking to the ego. Looking back often means replaying triumphs to confirm identity. Vigil is the opposite: it’s outward-facing, alert to the next scene, the next negotiation, the next reinvention. The line works because it’s both advice and threat. Relax, and the story gets written without you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Moving On |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Davis, Bette. (2026, January 17). To look back is to relax one's vigil. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-look-back-is-to-relax-ones-vigil-35407/
Chicago Style
Davis, Bette. "To look back is to relax one's vigil." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-look-back-is-to-relax-ones-vigil-35407/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To look back is to relax one's vigil." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-look-back-is-to-relax-ones-vigil-35407/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.




