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Love Quote by Alphonse de Lamartine

"To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic"

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Lamartine rigs this line like a moral seesaw: one side weighted with ordinary appetite, the other with near-impossible grace. The phrasing is deceptively simple, almost catechism-like, but it’s doing a Romantic poet’s favorite trick - turning private feeling into a spiritual hierarchy. “Human” love is transactional, not in a crass way, but in the quiet way most affection carries a receipt: I give warmth, I hope for warmth back. By naming that impulse without condemning it, he makes the reader feel seen before he raises the bar.

Then comes the pivot: love “for the sake of loving.” It’s a tautology that lands like a dare. Loving becomes its own justification, stripped of outcome, audience, and reward. Calling that “angelic” doesn’t just flatter selflessness; it frames desire for reciprocity as a gravity the soul must overcome. The subtext is Christian-inflected without being doctrinal: charity over romance, agape over need, saintliness over sentiment. It’s also a bit of rhetorical seduction. By placing “angelic” in reach as an ideal, he invites readers to recast their emotional dependence as aspiration rather than weakness.

Context matters: Lamartine wrote in a 19th-century France saturated with Romantic intensity and post-revolutionary soul-searching, where emotion was both a personal truth and a public aesthetic. The line flatters the era’s taste for lofty interiority while quietly disciplining it: feel deeply, yes - but prove your depth by asking for nothing.

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Lamartine, Alphonse de. (2026, January 14). To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-for-the-sake-of-being-loved-is-human-but-128858/

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Lamartine, Alphonse de. "To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-for-the-sake-of-being-loved-is-human-but-128858/.

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"To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-for-the-sake-of-being-loved-is-human-but-128858/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Alphonse de Lamartine (October 21, 1790 - February 28, 1869) was a Poet from France.

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