"To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic"
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Then comes the pivot: love “for the sake of loving.” It’s a tautology that lands like a dare. Loving becomes its own justification, stripped of outcome, audience, and reward. Calling that “angelic” doesn’t just flatter selflessness; it frames desire for reciprocity as a gravity the soul must overcome. The subtext is Christian-inflected without being doctrinal: charity over romance, agape over need, saintliness over sentiment. It’s also a bit of rhetorical seduction. By placing “angelic” in reach as an ideal, he invites readers to recast their emotional dependence as aspiration rather than weakness.
Context matters: Lamartine wrote in a 19th-century France saturated with Romantic intensity and post-revolutionary soul-searching, where emotion was both a personal truth and a public aesthetic. The line flatters the era’s taste for lofty interiority while quietly disciplining it: feel deeply, yes - but prove your depth by asking for nothing.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lamartine, Alphonse de. (2026, January 14). To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-for-the-sake-of-being-loved-is-human-but-128858/
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Lamartine, Alphonse de. "To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-for-the-sake-of-being-loved-is-human-but-128858/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To love for the sake of being loved is human, but to love for the sake of loving is angelic." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-for-the-sake-of-being-loved-is-human-but-128858/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.
















