"To love is to admire with the heart; to admire is to love with the mind"
About this Quote
The intent is to collapse the hierarchy that usually ranks “real” love above mere admiration. Gautier suggests the opposite: admiration is not love’s lesser cousin but its cognitive twin. That’s a very 19th-century provocation, arriving in a culture obsessed with Romantic authenticity while also building modern criticism, salons, and celebrity. He’s sketching a bridge between the rapture of the Romantics and the appraisal of the critic, making the case that both are forms of intimate engagement.
The subtext has bite: if you can’t admire what you claim to love, your devotion may be habit, need, or vanity. And if you admire without any tremor of feeling, your “taste” might be a performance. Gautier’s line quietly pressures the reader to audit their attachments: are you seeing the person, the artwork, the idea sharply enough to be moved by it, and moved enough to keep seeing it sharply?
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Verified source: Histoire de l'art dramatique en France depuis vingt-cinq ans (Theophile Gautier, 1859)
Evidence: Admirer, c'est aimer par l'esprit; aimer, c'est admirer par le cœur! (Page 309 (6e série / sixième série)). The widely-circulated English version (“To love is to admire with the heart; to admire is to love with the mind”) appears to be a translation/paraphrase of this French sentence. I was able to trace the quote to a specific claimed page in Gautier’s own work via a pointer that cites the exact French wording and the bibliographic container ("Histoire de l'art dramatique en France depuis vingt-cinq ans", 6e série, p. 309, 1859). However, I could not directly access the scanned page text on Google Books due to an access restriction (403), so I cannot independently verify the line from the page image in this session. Other candidates (1) Following Gods Way (B. G. Starkey, 2024) compilation95.0% ... To love is to admire with the heart; to admire is to love with the mind. —Theophile Gautier I have always express... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gautier, Theophile. (2026, February 14). To love is to admire with the heart; to admire is to love with the mind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-is-to-admire-with-the-heart-to-admire-is-104135/
Chicago Style
Gautier, Theophile. "To love is to admire with the heart; to admire is to love with the mind." FixQuotes. February 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-is-to-admire-with-the-heart-to-admire-is-104135/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To love is to admire with the heart; to admire is to love with the mind." FixQuotes, 14 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-is-to-admire-with-the-heart-to-admire-is-104135/. Accessed 29 Mar. 2026.











