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Life & Mortality Quote by Alan Cohen

"To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don't wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now"

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Self-love gets framed here as an emergency, not a spa-day slogan. Cohen structures the line like a spiritual ultimatum: “right now” and “just as you are” strip away the usual loopholes - the future body, the better job, the fixed personality - that let us postpone acceptance until it’s “earned.” The genius is the bait-and-switch with “heaven.” Instead of a distant afterlife reward, heaven becomes an immediate psychological state you can access without intermediaries, rituals, or permission. That’s a democratizing move, but also a sales-savvy one: it turns salvation into a decision.

The subtext is a critique of self-improvement culture even as it borrows its urgency. Cohen’s “Don’t wait until you die” isn’t only religious provocation; it’s a jab at the slow-motion death of deferral - living on layaway, where your present self is treated like a rough draft unworthy of care. The line “If you wait, you die now” is intentionally blunt, collapsing time so that postponement equals self-erasure. It’s motivational rhetoric with a dark edge: waiting isn’t neutral, it’s corrosive.

Context matters: as a businessman-turned-self-help voice, Cohen speaks in the idiom of modern wellness capitalism, where inner peace is framed as an actionable choice. That can feel reductive, but it’s also why it lands. It gives readers a clean, almost transactional reframing: stop bargaining with your life, stop spiritualizing delay, and collect the present tense.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cohen, Alan. (2026, January 16). To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don't wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-yourself-right-now-just-as-you-are-is-to-123771/

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Cohen, Alan. "To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don't wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-yourself-right-now-just-as-you-are-is-to-123771/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don't wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-love-yourself-right-now-just-as-you-are-is-to-123771/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Alan Cohen (born October 5, 1954) is a Businessman from USA.

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