"To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved"
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Hatred is another craft entirely. To be genuinely hated you have to matter, and not just in a “controversial” way that still feeds the marketplace. You have to press on people’s insecurities: their sense of what counts as skill, what counts as beauty, what counts as culture. Picasso’s own history supplies the subtext. Cubism wasn’t merely a new look; it was an assault on inherited ways of seeing, a public humiliation of the viewer’s confidence. That kind of offense takes intention. It requires insisting on your vision long enough for others to feel forced to react.
There’s also a sly self-portrait here. Picasso understood that adoration can be managed; hatred has to be earned through consequence. The quote isn’t self-pitying. It’s practically competitive. If they truly hate you, you didn’t just decorate the room - you rearranged it.
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Picasso, Pablo. (2026, January 15). To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-make-oneself-hated-is-more-difficult-than-to-9488/
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Picasso, Pablo. "To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-make-oneself-hated-is-more-difficult-than-to-9488/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-make-oneself-hated-is-more-difficult-than-to-9488/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












