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Creativity Quote by Pablo Picasso

"To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved"

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Picasso flips the usual moral math: we assume hatred is cheap and love is hard-won, but he insists the opposite. Coming from an artist who made a career out of refusal - of prettiness, of consensus, of playing nice with tradition - the line reads like a dare and a diagnostic. Love, especially in the art world, is often a kind of social gravity. People love what they recognize, what flatters their tastes, what confirms their belonging. You can earn that affection with charm, access, and just enough novelty to feel current without feeling threatened.

Hatred is another craft entirely. To be genuinely hated you have to matter, and not just in a “controversial” way that still feeds the marketplace. You have to press on people’s insecurities: their sense of what counts as skill, what counts as beauty, what counts as culture. Picasso’s own history supplies the subtext. Cubism wasn’t merely a new look; it was an assault on inherited ways of seeing, a public humiliation of the viewer’s confidence. That kind of offense takes intention. It requires insisting on your vision long enough for others to feel forced to react.

There’s also a sly self-portrait here. Picasso understood that adoration can be managed; hatred has to be earned through consequence. The quote isn’t self-pitying. It’s practically competitive. If they truly hate you, you didn’t just decorate the room - you rearranged it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Picasso, Pablo. (2026, January 15). To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-make-oneself-hated-is-more-difficult-than-to-9488/

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Picasso, Pablo. "To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-make-oneself-hated-is-more-difficult-than-to-9488/.

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"To make oneself hated is more difficult than to make oneself loved." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-make-oneself-hated-is-more-difficult-than-to-9488/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Pablo Picasso

Pablo Picasso (October 25, 1881 - April 8, 1973) was a Artist from Spain.

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