"To me, flying free is doing what I want to do, even if it's different from what everybody expects me to do. I'm flying free when I win the battle between me and the people who thought I should go down this road and I find my own road"
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Waters’ phrasing is deliberately physical: roads, battles, winning. It’s self-determination described like survival, which tracks with a music industry built on branding, compromise, and being legible to gatekeepers. The subtext is that conformity isn’t neutral; it’s a force that actively “wants” you on a certain path, and deviating costs something. “Different from what everybody expects” reads like code for the punishment women artists often absorb when they don’t play the agreeable role - too loud, too old, too independent, too genre-less.
The line “between me and the people who thought I should go down this road” also admits an uncomfortable truth: those people might not be villains. They could be protectors, advisors, fans. Waters makes freedom contingent on outgrowing even well-meant scripts. Finding “my own road” isn’t a dreamy slogan. It’s a claim of authorship: if the world insists on a map, she’d rather redraw it than follow it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waters, Crystal. (2026, January 16). To me, flying free is doing what I want to do, even if it's different from what everybody expects me to do. I'm flying free when I win the battle between me and the people who thought I should go down this road and I find my own road. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-flying-free-is-doing-what-i-want-to-do-even-117254/
Chicago Style
Waters, Crystal. "To me, flying free is doing what I want to do, even if it's different from what everybody expects me to do. I'm flying free when I win the battle between me and the people who thought I should go down this road and I find my own road." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-flying-free-is-doing-what-i-want-to-do-even-117254/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To me, flying free is doing what I want to do, even if it's different from what everybody expects me to do. I'm flying free when I win the battle between me and the people who thought I should go down this road and I find my own road." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-flying-free-is-doing-what-i-want-to-do-even-117254/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.











