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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jonathan Frid

"To me, horror is when I see somebody lying. I mean a person I know. A friend. And he's telling me something that I accept. And then suddenly, as he or she is telling it, there's something that gives them away. They're not telling me the truth"

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Horror, in Jonathan Frid's telling, isn’t a mask or a monster. It’s the second when intimacy turns into a trap. He doesn’t describe fear as an external threat but as a social rupture: the dread of realizing that someone close is performing a version of reality you were willing to buy. That detail matters. The liar isn’t a stranger; it’s a friend, a person whose credibility is part of your daily mental infrastructure. When the lie reveals itself, the damage isn’t just that a fact was wrong. It’s that your trust - your ability to read people, to feel safe inside relationships - suddenly looks naive.

The quote works because it dramatizes a tiny, cinematic pivot: “something that gives them away.” It’s the micro-expression, the tonal slip, the overly polished detail. Frid, as an actor, is attuned to tells. He’s describing the moment the performance fails, when the audience (you) sees the seam in the costume. That’s a distinctly actorly horror: not blood, but bad acting with real stakes.

There’s also a sly moral inversion. We tend to locate horror in the extraordinary; Frid locates it in the ordinary conversation you thought you understood. His emphasis on “something that I accept” underlines complicity: the lie lands because we want coherence, we want the story to be true. The scare comes when that desire is used against us, and the person across from you becomes, briefly, unreadable.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frid, Jonathan. (2026, January 16). To me, horror is when I see somebody lying. I mean a person I know. A friend. And he's telling me something that I accept. And then suddenly, as he or she is telling it, there's something that gives them away. They're not telling me the truth. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-horror-is-when-i-see-somebody-lying-i-mean-126577/

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Frid, Jonathan. "To me, horror is when I see somebody lying. I mean a person I know. A friend. And he's telling me something that I accept. And then suddenly, as he or she is telling it, there's something that gives them away. They're not telling me the truth." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-horror-is-when-i-see-somebody-lying-i-mean-126577/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To me, horror is when I see somebody lying. I mean a person I know. A friend. And he's telling me something that I accept. And then suddenly, as he or she is telling it, there's something that gives them away. They're not telling me the truth." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-horror-is-when-i-see-somebody-lying-i-mean-126577/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Jonathan Frid (born December 2, 1924) is a Actor from Canada.

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