"To me, sex is sex and I don't think it is or should be a problem. Maybe my presenting it that way will unscrew up a few heads out there, including my own"
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“Presenting it that way” points to craft. Hernandez isn’t talking about private belief so much as artistic depiction: how sex appears on the page, who gets to have it, whether it’s treated as joke, tragedy, conquest, or just a human fact. The verb “presenting” implicates the viewer too. If heads get “unscrewed,” it’s because the audience arrives with preassembled narratives about gender, desire, and propriety, then blames the art for loosening them.
The kicker is “including my own.” That undercuts any posture of purity or provocation-for-provocation’s-sake. He’s not claiming to be above taboo; he’s admitting he’s been built by the same culture he’s challenging. The intent, then, isn’t to shock but to recalibrate: to show sex plainly enough that discomfort can be traced back to its source. It’s an artist describing the messy, valuable feedback loop where representation doesn’t just reflect society’s norms - it tests them, and exposes the knots in the maker along with the audience.
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Hernandez, Jaime. (2026, January 17). To me, sex is sex and I don't think it is or should be a problem. Maybe my presenting it that way will unscrew up a few heads out there, including my own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-sex-is-sex-and-i-dont-think-it-is-or-should-69646/
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Hernandez, Jaime. "To me, sex is sex and I don't think it is or should be a problem. Maybe my presenting it that way will unscrew up a few heads out there, including my own." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-sex-is-sex-and-i-dont-think-it-is-or-should-69646/.
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"To me, sex is sex and I don't think it is or should be a problem. Maybe my presenting it that way will unscrew up a few heads out there, including my own." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-sex-is-sex-and-i-dont-think-it-is-or-should-69646/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.




