"To me, the black black woman is our essential mother, the blacker she is the more us she is and to see the hatred that is turned on her is enough to make me despair, almost entirely, of our future as a people"
About this Quote
The subtext is accusatory and protective at once. “To see the hatred that is turned on her” implies the hatred is collective, not merely external; it’s something “we” do, or at least tolerate. Walker’s despair isn’t sentimental pessimism. It’s a political diagnosis: a people who scapegoat their own source of life and labor sabotage their continuity. The “essential mother” is both literal (Black women’s reproductive and caretaking roles) and symbolic (the cultural memory, language, survival strategies carried through women). If that figure is targeted, the attack is not only misogyny or racism, but a kind of civil war over who counts as fully human within the group.
Context matters: Walker’s broader work is preoccupied with intraracial violence, beauty politics, and the psychic cost of oppression recycled at home. The quote works because it refuses comfort. It says: the future fails first in the way we look at our mothers.
Quote Details
| Topic | Equality |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Walker, Alice. (2026, January 17). To me, the black black woman is our essential mother, the blacker she is the more us she is and to see the hatred that is turned on her is enough to make me despair, almost entirely, of our future as a people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-the-black-black-woman-is-our-essential-35352/
Chicago Style
Walker, Alice. "To me, the black black woman is our essential mother, the blacker she is the more us she is and to see the hatred that is turned on her is enough to make me despair, almost entirely, of our future as a people." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-the-black-black-woman-is-our-essential-35352/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To me, the black black woman is our essential mother, the blacker she is the more us she is and to see the hatred that is turned on her is enough to make me despair, almost entirely, of our future as a people." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-me-the-black-black-woman-is-our-essential-35352/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











