"To my great surprise and pleasure, I have had dinner with most of the people living with whom I would like to have dinner"
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The phrasing matters. “Most of the people living” sets a clean boundary: no dead heroes, no impossible retroactive wish-fulfillment, no mythic Mount Rushmore guest list. Near keeps it earthly, social, doable. That makes the satisfaction feel earned rather than sentimental. The subtext is also political, in the way Near’s career has often been political: dinner is intimacy, coalition, the small table where movements and art scenes actually cohere. She’s not talking about shaking hands backstage; she’s talking about breaking bread, the human scale of influence.
And that’s why it lands. The quote dodges the standard celebrity anecdote (“I once met X”) and replaces it with a value system: a life measured by chosen company. It suggests that if your work is aligned with your ethics and your community, the world eventually puts you in the same room as the people who shaped you - and you can recognize the moment when it happens.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Near, Holly. (2026, January 15). To my great surprise and pleasure, I have had dinner with most of the people living with whom I would like to have dinner. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-my-great-surprise-and-pleasure-i-have-had-144391/
Chicago Style
Near, Holly. "To my great surprise and pleasure, I have had dinner with most of the people living with whom I would like to have dinner." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-my-great-surprise-and-pleasure-i-have-had-144391/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To my great surprise and pleasure, I have had dinner with most of the people living with whom I would like to have dinner." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-my-great-surprise-and-pleasure-i-have-had-144391/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.






