"To my surprise, my 70s are nicer than my 60s and my 60s than my 50s, and I wouldn't wish my teens and 20s on my enemies"
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The intent feels pastoral: permission to stop romanticizing the “best years” and to stop panicking about the ones ahead. Blue’s subtext is that youth isn’t innocence; it’s often confusion with better lighting. Teens and twenties are when identity is loud, brittle, and easily mistaken for destiny. The humor lets him say something bracing without sounding scolding: early life can be a grind of insecurity, desire, and social comparison, and the culture’s nostalgia industry lies about how enjoyable that actually was.
Context matters: Blue was a British rabbi and broadcaster who spoke candidly about doubt, depression, and the messy texture of faith. In that light, the quote reads like a miniature sermon against linear narratives of decline. The later decades aren’t “nicer” because the body improves; they’re nicer because the self gets less punishing. Fewer auditions, fewer urgencies, less need to perform a life for other people. It’s a reversal of the typical moral: instead of “cherish your youth,” Blue offers “cherish your loosening grip,” and he makes it land by letting wit carry the wisdom.
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| Topic | Aging |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Blue, Lionel. (2026, January 18). To my surprise, my 70s are nicer than my 60s and my 60s than my 50s, and I wouldn't wish my teens and 20s on my enemies. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-my-surprise-my-70s-are-nicer-than-my-60s-and-18081/
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Blue, Lionel. "To my surprise, my 70s are nicer than my 60s and my 60s than my 50s, and I wouldn't wish my teens and 20s on my enemies." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-my-surprise-my-70s-are-nicer-than-my-60s-and-18081/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To my surprise, my 70s are nicer than my 60s and my 60s than my 50s, and I wouldn't wish my teens and 20s on my enemies." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-my-surprise-my-70s-are-nicer-than-my-60s-and-18081/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.




