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Life & Wisdom Quote by Mary Oliver

"To pay attention, this is our endless and proper work"

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Attention, for Mary Oliver, is not a lifestyle hack or a wellness buzzword; it is a moral posture. In one spare sentence she turns looking into labor: endless, proper, required. That word choice matters. "Pay" implies cost and exchange: you give your time, your distraction, your ego, and in return you receive the world as it actually is. Oliver spent her career insisting that wonder is earned, not granted. The line carries the quiet severity of someone who has watched people rush past the obvious - birdsong, weather, a neighbor's grief - and call it a life.

The subtext is a rebuke to modern speed without ever naming it. Oliver doesn't rail against technology or politics; she does something sharper. She reframes attention as duty, the kind of duty that never gets crossed off a list. "Endless" removes any fantasy of completion. You don't graduate from noticing. You practice it the way you practice kindness, or honesty: imperfectly, daily, again.

Contextually, Oliver wrote out of a tradition where nature isn't escapism but instruction. Her poems keep returning to the same wager: that if you attend closely enough, the world will educate your conscience. "Proper" hints at etiquette, even reverence - a reminder that the natural world isn't content for us to consume, but a presence we are obligated to meet with seriousness. In an era addicted to commentary, Oliver offers a radical alternative: witness first, then speak.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Oliver, Mary. (2026, January 16). To pay attention, this is our endless and proper work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-pay-attention-this-is-our-endless-and-proper-97132/

Chicago Style
Oliver, Mary. "To pay attention, this is our endless and proper work." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-pay-attention-this-is-our-endless-and-proper-97132/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To pay attention, this is our endless and proper work." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-pay-attention-this-is-our-endless-and-proper-97132/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mary Oliver (September 10, 1935 - January 17, 2019) was a Poet from USA.

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