"To progress in life you must give up the things you do not like. Give up doing the things that you do not like to do. You must find the things that you do like. The things that are acceptable to your mind"
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The phrasing “acceptable to your mind” is the hinge. It’s not “acceptable to society,” the market, or even your own ego. It’s a private standard, almost ascetic. Martin’s work is often misread as serene minimalism; her life and writing suggest a tougher project: protecting a fragile inner weather system from noise. In that light, “things you do not like” aren’t mere preferences. They’re whatever scrambles the signal - obligations, chatter, fashionable gestures, even certain kinds of ambition. She’s arguing that taste is a survival tool.
There’s subtexted permission here, especially for creative people trained to romanticize suffering. Martin flips the script: discomfort isn’t automatically virtue, and endurance isn’t automatically growth. Progress happens when you stop feeding the parts of your life that feel deadening and start arranging conditions where attention can stay intact. It’s less about indulgence than about alignment - a stark, practical ethics of the mind.
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Martin, Agnes. (2026, January 15). To progress in life you must give up the things you do not like. Give up doing the things that you do not like to do. You must find the things that you do like. The things that are acceptable to your mind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-progress-in-life-you-must-give-up-the-things-39089/
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Martin, Agnes. "To progress in life you must give up the things you do not like. Give up doing the things that you do not like to do. You must find the things that you do like. The things that are acceptable to your mind." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-progress-in-life-you-must-give-up-the-things-39089/.
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"To progress in life you must give up the things you do not like. Give up doing the things that you do not like to do. You must find the things that you do like. The things that are acceptable to your mind." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-progress-in-life-you-must-give-up-the-things-39089/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











