"To rejoice in another's prosperity is to give content to your lot; to mitigate another's grief is to alleviate or dispel your own"
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The second clause goes further, almost brazenly pragmatic. To ease another’s grief is not framed as heroic sacrifice but as psychic housekeeping: compassion rebounds, “alleviat[ing] or dispel[ling] your own” sorrow. Edwards is essentially arguing that the self is porous. You can’t stand beside pain without being edited by it, and the act of helping converts helplessness (a breeding ground for despair) into agency. The subtext is quietly corrective to a strain of 19th-century Protestant individualism: salvation may be personal, but emotional survival is communal.
Context matters. As a theologian in an era of revivalism, reform movements, and tightening social respectability, Edwards is selling a faith that governs inner life as much as outward conduct. He makes kindness attractive by admitting its payoff. It’s not cynicism; it’s a moral argument calibrated for people who know they’re tired, anxious, and prone to resentment, and who need a reason to choose generosity anyway.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Edwards, Tryon. (2026, January 18). To rejoice in another's prosperity is to give content to your lot; to mitigate another's grief is to alleviate or dispel your own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-rejoice-in-anothers-prosperity-is-to-give-23031/
Chicago Style
Edwards, Tryon. "To rejoice in another's prosperity is to give content to your lot; to mitigate another's grief is to alleviate or dispel your own." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-rejoice-in-anothers-prosperity-is-to-give-23031/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To rejoice in another's prosperity is to give content to your lot; to mitigate another's grief is to alleviate or dispel your own." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-rejoice-in-anothers-prosperity-is-to-give-23031/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.










