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Love Quote by Stephen Chbosky

"To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world"

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Chbosky’s line refuses the grand, prepackaged gestures of romance by naming the cliché and stepping around it. “It’s not a movie kind of love” is a defensive move and a confession in the same breath: the speaker knows how love is supposed to sound, knows the camera-ready script, and insists their feeling doesn’t fit that template. That insistence is the point. In a culture where affection is often validated only when it looks like a scene, the quote stakes out a quieter credibility: love as attention, as lingering perception, as something that happens in the awkward in-between moments when nobody is performing.

The phrase “To tell you the truth” signals the social risk here. This is an admission made against an imagined audience that might mock it, misunderstand it, or demand a label the speaker can’t provide. “I just look at her sometimes” narrows the scope to the ordinary, suggesting a love built less on narrative events than on repeated, almost involuntary noticing. The diction is intentionally plain - “prettiest,” “nicest,” “whole world” - the kind of adolescent absolutism that feels both naive and brutally sincere. It’s not trying to be profound; it’s trying to be accurate.

Contextually, Chbosky often writes from inside youth’s emotional intensity, where restraint is learned, not natural. The subtext is permission: you can love someone without a plot, without a payoff, without certainty it will be returned. The intent isn’t to romanticize Sam so much as to legitimize a tender, non-cinematic devotion in a world that keeps demanding spectacle.

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TopicI Love You
SourceThe Perks of Being a Wallflower (1999) — line from Charlie's narration: “To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world.”
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Chbosky, Stephen. (2026, January 15). To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-tell-you-the-truth-i-love-sam-its-not-a-movie-172993/

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Chbosky, Stephen. "To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-tell-you-the-truth-i-love-sam-its-not-a-movie-172993/.

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"To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-tell-you-the-truth-i-love-sam-its-not-a-movie-172993/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Stephen Chbosky (born January 24, 1970) is a Novelist from USA.

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