"To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world"
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The phrase “To tell you the truth” signals the social risk here. This is an admission made against an imagined audience that might mock it, misunderstand it, or demand a label the speaker can’t provide. “I just look at her sometimes” narrows the scope to the ordinary, suggesting a love built less on narrative events than on repeated, almost involuntary noticing. The diction is intentionally plain - “prettiest,” “nicest,” “whole world” - the kind of adolescent absolutism that feels both naive and brutally sincere. It’s not trying to be profound; it’s trying to be accurate.
Contextually, Chbosky often writes from inside youth’s emotional intensity, where restraint is learned, not natural. The subtext is permission: you can love someone without a plot, without a payoff, without certainty it will be returned. The intent isn’t to romanticize Sam so much as to legitimize a tender, non-cinematic devotion in a world that keeps demanding spectacle.
Quote Details
| Topic | I Love You |
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| Source | The Perks of Being a Wallflower (1999) — line from Charlie's narration: “To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world.” |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chbosky, Stephen. (2026, January 15). To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-tell-you-the-truth-i-love-sam-its-not-a-movie-172993/
Chicago Style
Chbosky, Stephen. "To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-tell-you-the-truth-i-love-sam-its-not-a-movie-172993/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To tell you the truth I love Sam. It's not a movie kind of love either. I just look at her sometimes and I think she is the prettiest and nicest person in the whole world." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-tell-you-the-truth-i-love-sam-its-not-a-movie-172993/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


